Parent Support Program

Chaos to Calm

A program to help parents find calm in the chaos of big feelings.

Ready to build a calmer home but feel stuck in constant power struggles?

Darcy Harbour, a female family counsellor smiling, wearing a light blazer and dark top, walking outdoors with greenery and sunlight.

The Chaos to Calm program helps parents identify and manage their emotional triggers, regulate intense feelings, and guide their children to do the same. With practical tools, expert support, and a like-minded community, this program empowers families to move from constant conflict to connection and calm. Work through the self-paced course on your own, or add monthly group calls and community support whenever you're ready.

$297 · Add live monthly calls + community for $67/month · Insurance receipts available

NEW THIS FALL:

WANT TO WORK THROUGH CHAOS TO CALM WITH SOME EXTRA SUPPORT?

Join the Fall Guided Series — an 8-week guided experience combining the complete Chaos to Calm course with three live small-group coaching calls with Darcy.

$447 · Limited fall enrolment

Do you ever think…

“I try to stay calm, but I always end up yelling.”

“My child’s outbursts feel impossible to manage.”

“I want to connect with my kids, but I’m so overwhelmed by everything else.”

“I know I need to handle my triggers better, but I don’t know where to start.”

“I feel so alone in this and don’t know if I’m doing enough.”

You’re not alone, and it’s not your fault.

Parenting is incredibly hard, especially when you’re dealing with big emotions—both yours and your child’s.

If you’re like many parents I hear from, you might be thinking…

"I'd like to stay calm, but my child’s behaviour feels impossible to handle at the moment."

"I know I can build a stronger connection, but I just don’t know how to start."

"I know I have the tools somewhere, but I get stuck in the heat of the moment."

Get immediate tools tonight.

No waitlists.

No driving to appointments.

Just practical, clinical strategies you can use during the next meltdown.

We’ve got you!

That’s exactly why Chaos to Calm was created. This program gives you the tools, strategies, and support to handle tough parenting moments with confidence and clarity.

Through on demand video lessons,practical tools and expert guidance, you’ll discover how to transform frustration into connection and chaos into calm—all while building the skills to create lasting change for you and your family.

Get an entire clinical framework for less than the cost of two private therapy sessions. For $297, you get lifetime access to the exact same step-by-step strategies I teach my private clients, available to you 24/7 whenever a crisis hits.

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$297 · Add live monthly calls + community for $67/month · Insurance receipts available

Ride the Waves of Intense Feelings Without Losing It

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Ride the Waves of Intense Feelings Without Losing It ~

About the Program

The Chaos to Calm Parent Support Program is a transformative journey for parents who want more than quick fixes, they want a deep, lasting change in how they approach parenting. Using the most effective, evidence-based strategies, this program empowers you to navigate your own challenging emotions while guiding your child through theirs.

You’ll learn how to replace control with connection, helping your child feel understood and supported, even during their most intense moments. Along the way, you’ll discover how self-compassion can be your most powerful tool, encouraging yourself through the hard moments and staying grounded when parenting feels overwhelming.

Through this program, you’ll have a clear, step-by-step path to handle your child’s BIG feelings with confidence, turning emotional chaos into connection and calm. Best of all, you’ll know you’re helping your child build emotional resilience and the skills they need to thrive.

Course Overview

This course is designed with busy parents in mind, offering five self-paced modules packed with insights, tools, and strategies that will transform how you parent through emotional challenges:

  1. Understand Emotions Inside and Out
    Take a deep dive into emotional needs, child development, and the powerful connection between emotions, the mind, and the body. You’ll uncover what drives behavior and how to meet your child’s needs at a deeper level.

  2. Uncover and Tame the Chaos
    Discover what’s fueling the emotional storms in your home by identifying and managing your triggers. Learn to recognize trauma responses, practice self-compassion techniques, and create a foundation for calm in even the most chaotic moments.

  3. Master the Art of Holding Space
    Gain simple, effective, evidence-based tools to support your child through their BIG feelings. You’ll learn how to use emotion coaching to guide your child toward understanding and managing their emotions, all while fostering trust and connection.

  4. Build Emotional Resilience for You and Your Child
    Develop the skills to co-regulate your emotions, build frustration tolerance, and cope with tough feelings like grief and loss. This module will empower you to model the emotional resilience you want to see in your child.

  5. Create Connection, Not Conflict
    End power struggles and replace yelling and time-outs with connection and cooperation. You’ll build personalized strategies to address negative self-talk, foster deeper bonds, and create a home environment where everyone feels understood and supported.

Each module is designed to guide you step by step toward a calmer, more connected way of parenting- without feeling overwhelmed. You’ll leave with the tools and confidence to handle tough moments with compassion and clarity.

Choose the Support that Works for You

LEARN AT YOUR OWN PACE

Chaos to Calm Course — $297

Start immediately and work through the complete Chaos to Calm course on your own schedule.

You'll receive:

• Lifetime access to all 5 modules
• Short, practical video lessons
• Guided workbook
• What to Say Instead of Yelling scripts
• The Exploding Child Reference Guide

Best for: Parents who like learning independently and want practical tools they can return to whenever they need them.

START THE COURSE - $297

LEARN WITH SUPPORT THIS FALL

Chaos to Calm Fall Guided Series — $447

Want some accountability and somewhere to bring the questions that come up when you try these strategies at home?

Join me for an 8-week guided experience through Chaos to Calm.

You'll receive everything in the self-paced course, plus:

• A suggested 8-week pathway through the course
• Three 60-minute live small-group coaching calls with Darcy
• Opportunities to ask questions and talk through real parenting situations
• Connection with other parents working through the same material

The course provides the learning. Our calls are where we'll talk about what that learning looks like in your actual family.

LIVE CALL DATES
October 5 · October 26 · November 16
12:00–1:00 pm Pacific
Live on Zoom · Recordings available

Best for: Parents who want some structure, connection and personalized guidance as they put the course into practice.

STAY SUPPORTED

Monthly Parent Membership — $67/month

Want an ongoing place to ask questions and stay connected?

Add monthly support whenever you're ready.

• Monthly live group coaching call with Darcy
• Private parent community for questions, wins and support between calls
• Access to call recordings
• Cancel anytime

Here’s how to stop reacting out of frustration and start connecting with intention so you can create a more peaceful and cooperative family dynamic!

Imagine…

A home where you feel confident handling big emotions—yours and your child’s

—without yelling, guilt, or power struggles.

Family walking by lake on rocky shore with greenery.

With Chaos to Calm, you’ll:

  • create stronger bonds

  • reduce daily stress

  • foster a more peaceful and loving family environment

  • Darcy's Chaos to Calm program completely changed our lives. As our kids were getting older, we realized that we needed a parenting skills upgrade. We didn't know how to deal with a lot of the big emotions that were occurring and how to evaluate and manage our reactions to them. Connecting with other parents in the program dealing with similar issues helped us feel like our challenges were normalized and we're now better equipped to be the parents we want to be.

    Brad J., Chaos to Calm Member

  • Before Darcy’s program, we had moments where our parenting felt super stressful and was a source of conflict between the two of us. Now, we have the tools to manage triggers and I feel so much more confident as a parent that we’re making choices to support our family and kids in the best possible way.

    Lauren M., Chaos to Calm Member

  • Darcy meets you where you're at and gently points you in a new direction and gives you a new perspective. She makes parents feel heard and validated and still open to a new way of doing it. It's such a fine line to walk and she does it really well.

    Chaos to Calm Member

  • We are in a really good place for the moment and I often think about how your gentle and encouraging coaching got us here!

    Chaos to Calm Member

  • We found it really helpful to have both parents participating - it helped foster discussion and perspective sharing between us and feel more like a team.

    Chaos to Calm Member

Common Questions

Not ready for the full program? The self-paced course is available on its own for $297 — add monthly calls and community support whenever you're ready.

$297 · Add live monthly calls + community for $67/month · Insurance receipts available

Still not sure? Let’s discuss if this program is right for you!